Relationship & Love

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Relationship! That word ehh, on how you hear am, know say e go must get day wey the thin' go expire but Love on the other hand never ends. I dunno about you but this is how I see these two words. The former always have an end but the later never stops. It's ever green.

Relationship can come in many forms, let's not get me wrong but the most prominent kind we do practice widely today, it can end in many ways with no regards whatsoever as to how much sacrifices u both have made in the past nor the damage it'll cause in the future. Nobody cares. It just stops and mind you, the sex kept you that long enough to stay. Believe it or don't, I've been there before.

Real Love? How many relationships does that still exist in anyway? Well I don't expect an answer to that, your heart knows better. Thanks to the decency of merciful lies though, some get to last a week, some less. Who's fault is it?  God loves no matter what so why can't we just love unconditionally without having to tag it a name & hope one day it doesn't end?

Look! I dunno how to get this out but anyway the fact is when you love somebody‎, that's it because:
• You don't want to be the cause of his/her pain.
• You'll always want them to be happy (with or without you).
• You don't want to ever stop bein' happy so u don't stop thinking about them (ever fresh on your mind).
• You say sorry even when you're the one hurt because you don't ever want to stop loving (that's when people call you stupid).
• No sex but you always faithful. How many relationships can survive all that? The GOLDEN RULES! [as you wish others should do onto you, do to them likewise].

Oh! You think I'm carried away? Naaa, I'm not. Can we love without touching or seeing? I can't explain every single detail but if you feel me then let's not baptize it & hope someday along the line sex will fall out, if it don't then you go out there to get one. You on the other hand shouldn't pay him back wit same evil. I know the ladies will want my head on this one but what if we turn the tables & the man won't have to pay back wit same evil? Impossible! I mean like if you really do want to argue it, fine but the chances are 0.1% possible.

Well my point is, let's not deceive ourselves & in as much as how harsh or rude (as some will say) that sounds, I still have a polite way to put it. "Let's not confuse ourselves with the both words RELATIONSHIP & LOVE because the former can exist without the later but the later can't exist without the former. 
Be wise!

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