The Golden Rule

Human beings are spirits; you call for theirwrath when you defile them. This is why no one should mislead, deceive or manipulate their fellow human being in the name of relationship or love. You defile a human when you ‘use’ them. Humans are to be loved & cared for. If you're fond of having sex with others & dumping them once you're done, use your head brother! If you're in the habit of using others for your needs & once you're done, you drop them, watch your back! (this goes out to everyone, no gender in particular).

If you're a man & agree to date or be in a relationship with any lady in the name of marriage, it means you're making the lady a prophetess in your life. Their words have a huge impact on your life; their encouragement, counsel & prayers contribute to your success in life. How far you go in life as a man determines the kind of woman in your life. What they say has the power to come to pass.

This is why you have to be careful in selecting the right kind of woman as your partner. This means it’s not anything you're attracted to that you go for; it isn’t everything which looks appealing that you go for. You don't just use a woman & dump her. It is like dumping your destiny or future because you might cause her to speak words which you don't want to come to pass.

Women are powerful & it's time the young men of today knew so they don't get involved with any woman when they know very well they have no plans of settling down with them, as a demi god, there's power in our tongues. Words said in heartbreak will always leave an unpleasant scar within the mind of the offender & they most likely come to pass.

Young pastors or ministers, who are luring ladies into a relationship in exchange for help, please be careful. Just as you call them your destiny helper, they have the power to become your destiny destroyer because you have given them access in the first place & then also, if you're a lady who dates men for just your needs or help, use your head because it might seem to you it's all about the money or the flashy things you can get but it goes way beyond that.
Men are sources, they are fathers. When you agree to be in a relationship with him, you're making him your source or a father figure. Believe what you want but that's an undeniable fact.

If you take his provision & protection for granted & then take advantage of him & make him go through pains, his curses come to pass because you submitted to that authority when you agreed to be with him. The duty of the man is to love & cherish the woman in his life, not to abuse, use & dump her. The same way the woman is supposed to submit to your authority & not to fool or manipulate you.

No one likes used & dumped things, not to talk of being used & dumped by the one who claimed he or she loved you. If you can't be good to that man or woman you want to be in the relationship with, please don't waste their time, deceive, rub their emotions or use & then dump.
They're better off without your lies & if you must have to walk out on a Relationship, don't make it loud & very obvious. Instead of creating reasons to do that & in the end hurt the other, withdraw silently or give them some space. If they happen to come around, take it on but if they don't, move the hell on. (Please this method only should be considered taken if there's nothing you can do to save the wrecking ship)

Our today is a reflection of our future & what you send out there today will come back to you tomorrow.
What you sow today is your harvest tomorrow, what you give today; you will get it tomorrow.
It goes round like that so to avoid curses, choose to bless others today. Be real, be transparent, be a lover, be good because you got it in you, you don't force it because it comes out naturally.

Life has taught me well enough to know that anything you don't want, you don't give it a second thought. If a lady sees who she likes for the first time, she gives them the chance to convince her but if they don't, there's no way she's giving the attention. My point is, don't rub a guy's emotion when you know you're in for the deep pockets, tell him to back off on time even though the strong headed type will want to persevere but if that be the case then make the hell sure that you don't accept anything he brings to the table in the name of pleasing you because one day, he's going to expect you to reciprocate those kind gestures.

Guys, if you try so hard to win a lady's attention when clearly she didn't have to but somehow you sounded so convincing & she layed down her guards for you, don't make her regret making that choice. If you're in for the fun of it, best be real with that fact from day 1 & if somehow you're down for whatever then also keep it real with her, either way, honesty won't cost you a thing. I don talk am before & I go still talk am again, actions have consequences, what goes around comes back around.
You will have your kids in the future unless of course you choose not to tie up the knots wit anyone but our mistakes & deliberate actions have a coming back to it & on the day of reckony, you're not only going to reap from those mistakes of yours you showed way back, people close to you might also be affected if the law of folds of ten happens to be very effective on your case. Be very careful. 

In conclusion, AS YOU WISH OTHERS SHOULD DO UNTO YOU, DO TO THEM LIKEWISE. "You cannot fool God, so don’t make a fool of yourself! You will harvest what you sow". Galatians 6:7.

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